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Parent coaching for families of toddlers and preschoolers (ages 2–7)

Waiting for answers about your child? You don't have to wait alone.

Do you wonder if your little one might be autistic? Whether an evaluation is coming up, just happened, or is still only a question in your mind, I help you understand your child and bring calm back into your home.

Online coaching for families in Upstate South Carolina and across the US.

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Nancy SchillingParent coach

If this sounds familiar

You love your child. You're also exhausted.

  • You've been on a waitlist for months and don't know what to do in the meantime.
  • Meltdowns, bedtime, and mornings feel like a daily struggle.
  • Family and friends have opinions, but nobody really understands.
  • You just got a diagnosis and feel relief, grief, and overwhelm all at once.

How it works

Your everyday life shows us where to start

No clinic visit and no diagnosis needed. We work with what really happens in your home.

  1. Film a real moment at home

    Mealtime, bedtime, getting out the door. A few minutes are enough, and videos you already have on your phone are fine.

  2. I review it closely

    I look for the pattern behind the hard moment: what happened right before, what your child might be telling you, and what already helps.

  3. You get a clear plan

    Written, practical steps for your home and your daily routines, made for your child. Read it whenever you have a minute.

This is parent coaching, not therapy and not a diagnosis.

How I can help

Support for every part of the path

There's no single right way. We start where you are.

  • Before a diagnosis

    Make sense of what you see

    Sort your observations, prepare for the evaluation, and get practical strategies you can use right now.

  • Right after

    Breathe and take it in

    Room for all the feelings, plus a clear, calm plan for the next steps.

  • Everyday life

    Reconnect at home

    Routines, communication, and calming tools that fit your child and your family.

Your videos

Your child's videos stay private

Who sees the videos?

Only me. I don't share them with anyone, I never post them, and I never use them for marketing or training.

How do I send them?

Through a private upload page that only you get the link to. No email attachments, no social media.

Where are they stored?

In protected, private storage in the US. They're never public, and only I can open them.

When are they deleted?

Automatically 30 days after you receive your written plan. You can ask me to delete them sooner at any time, and I will.

Do I have to film anything new?

No. Videos you already have are fine. Please only send moments you're comfortable sharing.

Do I need a diagnosis?

No. You can start whenever you're wondering.

Meet your coach

Hi, I'm Nancy.

I'm a mother of five in a blended family where autism is simply part of everyday life. My own children's autism went unrecognized for years, so I know how long and lonely the time before answers can feel.

I'm currently completing my bachelor's degree in psychology. I hold IHK-certified credentials in systemic coaching and in systemic family and parent coaching (the IHK is Germany's Chamber of Commerce and Industry), and I've completed professional development in autism with Reframing Autism. I also trained as an emergency medical technician and in occupational therapy in Germany.

But honestly, what qualifies me most is having lived exactly what you're living now.

Case Files on Instagram

What everyday behavior can tell us

In my Case Files I walk through everyday moments and what they might mean, in plain words.

Case Files are illustrative examples based on common situations, not real client stories.

See the Case Files on Instagram (opens in a new tab)

Founding families

3 founding spots, opening soon

I'm opening my Video Analysis Package to the first 3 families at a founding rate. It includes a kick-off conversation, two videos from your everyday life, two written analyses within 24–48 hours each, and a closing conversation, all in about 12 days.

$269 regular price $299

Join the waitlist and you'll hear from me first. Joining is free and doesn't commit you to anything.

All ways to work with me

  • Free Discovery Call15 min · free
  • Open Door Session30 min on Zoom · $59
  • Write & Chat Session30 min in writing · $49
  • Video Analysis Packageabout 12 days · $299
  • Home Setup Sessionby video · $199
  • Membership$59/month or $159/quarter
Preview of the Behavior Decoder: the cover page and an example analysis page

Your free Behavior Decoder

See what's inside

  • A one-page worksheet to slow one hard moment down: before, during, after
  • A simple way to spot the pattern after three moments
  • An example of how I would read an everyday dinner meltdown

Start here

Your first step can be a small one.